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Phones for pre-teens have definitely crossed over from emergency use to coveted accessory. But many families still grapple with the question: what is the right age to give your kids cell phones? I’ve always said there is no one right answer to this question. Every family needs to weigh the need for a cell phone versus the want, along with the added expense to the family budget. And it may be no small expense if your pre-teen or teen takes a liking to text-messaging right away. So if you’re thinking about extending the cell phone privilege—and it is a privilege—to your kids, here are a few things to consider:
What do you think is the right age for kids to get cell phones? And if your kids have them, let us know what plans and rules have worked (or not worked!) for your family.
Posted by: Busy Mom| April 02, 2008 at 02:25 PM I really don't think that childlen should start toting cell phones before they are even in high school. As I graduate from college this year I remember that I got my first cell phone 5 short years ago. I had no need for a cell phone before that because I was too busy being a kid. A child with a cell phone is just putting more adult responsibilities on a child than they need to have. What is wrong with the pay-phone in the school lobby? Cell phones are just one more thing that distracts children from being a kid. I got a cell phone back in 1993 when I satred driving. My grandmother made me keep it with me and turned on in case of emergencies. I never needed it but it was nice to be able to call my parents or grandmother and let them know if I was running late. Now my 15 year-old brother has one and texts all the time. The one person who cannever reach him - our mom. I think kids are getting them way too early. If it is used for safety, that's one thing,but beyond that - wait until college. And make the kids chip in for the cost of anything but the bare minimum. LONG-TERM CELL PHONE USE INCREASES BRAIN TUMOR RISK NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - Using a cell phone for more than a decade can The findings "give a consistent pattern of increased risk for acoustic Acoustic neuromas are benign growths on the nerve linking the ear to the "These results are certainly of biological relevance." The greatest risk was They add that "longer follow-up is needed, however, as an increased risk for Using "old fashioned" plug-in ear pieces (vs wireless) can at least keep the antenna away from one's head. It can be used with cell phones & cordless phones, which are actually equivalent to cell phones, just with a closer broadcasting "tower." We have an old-fashioned heavy black rotary phone. It was the only house phone that worked when the power went out! I still don't have a cell phone and I am 24. I reallly can't afford it and it is not something I really need. People can survive witout them. Maybe I shouldn't admit it, but I have actually thought about getting a Firefly for my 6 year old son. Not because he's asking for a phone, or because he "needs" to talk to anyone. But for emergencies. How frustrated would I be if, heaven forbid, he couldn't reach me when he needed to? With a limited use phone like the Firefly, I feel like he would have the confidence that mom and dad are a call away. Will I buy it? Probably not - more because I'm worried about the judgment from other parents than potential abuse by my son! |
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There isn't one right age.
When my oldest was 10, we bought (purposefully) a really ugly, non-trendy cell phone and called it the "extra" phone. It was only $9.99/month.
We issued it to her as needed for various occasions. She was a soccer referee and it was good for her to have it when she was at work.
As she got older, more opportunities for needing a phone presented themselves and she was very responsible with it.
When she was 12 (7th grade) we got her a phone and she's done fine. She stayed within her texting limits, etc. It's only been recently that we've had to go to unlimited messaging, which was worth it.
Is it vital that she have one? No, but there's nothing wrong with it, she uses it properly, she enjoys it and it's been handy to have.