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What's the Right Age for Kids to get Cell Phones?
Posted on Apr 1, 2008 9:47:00 AM  |  By DoryDevlin

Girlswithcellphone_istock_0000019_3 Is it me, or does it seem as if kids are getting cell phones at younger and younger ages? When my oldest, now almost 15, was in middle school, her friends started getting them, a few as early as 6th grade. Now my youngest is in 5th grade, and it seems as if she comes home with news every day of yet another friend who has a new cell phone.



Phones for pre-teens have definitely crossed over from emergency use to coveted accessory. But many families still grapple with the question: what is the right age to give your kids cell phones?



I’ve always said there is no one right answer to this question. Every family needs to weigh the need for a cell phone versus the want, along with the added expense to the family budget. And it may be no small expense if your pre-teen or teen takes a liking to text-messaging right away.



So if you’re thinking about extending the cell phone privilege—and it is a privilege—to your kids, here are a few things to consider:



  1. Heavy use or light use. Will the phone be a constant link to friends, via calling or texting, or is the phone for communicating with you when needed? Know what you're getting into. If you don't think your child will be texting and she does, you could be one of the many parents unpleasantly surprised by an excessive cell phone bill one month. Set the ground rules up front. And know you can ask the carrier to turn off text messaging if that's not what you and your child want right now.


  2. A pay-as-you-go option may be the way to go. It's not if your kids will be heavy texters. If so, a family plan is probably going to be your best bet. For my oldest daughter's first phone, we've been happy with kajeet, a company that provides solid phones that pass the teen cool test along with a fair pay-as-you-go pricing structure and an online wallet manager that allows parents and kids to manage cell phone budgets. (Note: my daughter's not a serial texter.)


  3. Have your talking/texting teen chip in. If your teen really wants the phone to communicate with her friends, which means adding a $20 extra unlimited texting package, consider having her contribute to the monthly bill. I feel kinda strongly that kids should know just how big an expense cell phones can be. If they contribute to the bill, they'll figure that out as quickly as we do.


What do you think is the right age for kids to get cell phones? And if your kids have them, let us know what plans and rules have worked (or not worked!) for your family.



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There isn't one right age.

When my oldest was 10, we bought (purposefully) a really ugly, non-trendy cell phone and called it the "extra" phone. It was only $9.99/month.

We issued it to her as needed for various occasions. She was a soccer referee and it was good for her to have it when she was at work.

As she got older, more opportunities for needing a phone presented themselves and she was very responsible with it.

When she was 12 (7th grade) we got her a phone and she's done fine. She stayed within her texting limits, etc. It's only been recently that we've had to go to unlimited messaging, which was worth it.

Is it vital that she have one? No, but there's nothing wrong with it, she uses it properly, she enjoys it and it's been handy to have.

Posted by: Busy Mom| April 02, 2008 at 02:25 PM




I really don't think that childlen should start toting cell phones before they are even in high school. As I graduate from college this year I remember that I got my first cell phone 5 short years ago. I had no need for a cell phone before that because I was too busy being a kid. A child with a cell phone is just putting more adult responsibilities on a child than they need to have. What is wrong with the pay-phone in the school lobby? Cell phones are just one more thing that distracts children from being a kid.

Posted by: Em| April 04, 2008 at 12:41 PM




I got a cell phone back in 1993 when I satred driving. My grandmother made me keep it with me and turned on in case of emergencies. I never needed it but it was nice to be able to call my parents or grandmother and let them know if I was running late. Now my 15 year-old brother has one and texts all the time. The one person who cannever reach him - our mom. I think kids are getting them way too early. If it is used for safety, that's one thing,but beyond that - wait until college. And make the kids chip in for the cost of anything but the bare minimum.

Posted by: cb2ski| April 04, 2008 at 02:02 PM




LONG-TERM CELL PHONE USE INCREASES BRAIN TUMOR RISK

NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - Using a cell phone for more than a decade can
double the risk of some brain tumors, according to a new analysis of
previous studies.

The findings "give a consistent pattern of increased risk for acoustic
neuroma and glioma," Dr. Lennart Hardell of University Hospital in Orebro,
Sweden and colleagues write, with the greatest risk seen on the side of the
head where the mobile phone was held.

Acoustic neuromas are benign growths on the nerve linking the ear to the
brain, while gliomas are malignant, difficult-to-treat tumors of the brain
and nervous system.

"These results are certainly of biological relevance." The greatest risk was
for tumors located in the area of the brain with the most exposure and the
study periods allowed enough time for tumors to develop, the researchers
note.

They add that "longer follow-up is needed, however, as an increased risk for
other types of brain tumors cannot be ruled out."

Using "old fashioned" plug-in ear pieces (vs wireless) can at least keep the antenna away from one's head. It can be used with cell phones & cordless phones, which are actually equivalent to cell phones, just with a closer broadcasting "tower." We have an old-fashioned heavy black rotary phone. It was the only house phone that worked when the power went out!

Posted by: someonesomebody| April 04, 2008 at 04:41 PM




I still don't have a cell phone and I am 24. I reallly can't afford it and it is not something I really need. People can survive witout them.

Posted by: Cassie| April 06, 2008 at 07:06 PM




Maybe I shouldn't admit it, but I have actually thought about getting a Firefly for my 6 year old son. Not because he's asking for a phone, or because he "needs" to talk to anyone. But for emergencies. How frustrated would I be if, heaven forbid, he couldn't reach me when he needed to? With a limited use phone like the Firefly, I feel like he would have the confidence that mom and dad are a call away.

Will I buy it? Probably not - more because I'm worried about the judgment from other parents than potential abuse by my son!

Posted by: KristinBrandt| April 07, 2008 at 03:01 PM






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