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Text Messaging
Why You Should Text Message
Posted on Mar 5, 2008 9:00:00 AM  |  By Erin—Manic Mommies

There was this hilarious television commercial promoting a company’s text messaging service. (See video below.) If you haven’t seen it, the commercial features a mom speaking with her family about their text messaging habits. The kids and their grandmother start responding in text. Our favorite exchange is at the end …



Mother: “And you, you’re old enough to know better.”
Grandmother: “MYOB, will ya.”
Mother: “Mom, who could you be texting?”
Grandmother: “IDK. My BFF Rose.”




The commercial has been recently updated and this time the family is playing Scrabble. You can guess where that goes. It’s easy to say that there’s no valid reason to text message, so you don’t have to learn how to, but we have three good reasons why you should learn to text message.



Reason #1: Connect with your kids
One of Kristin’s clients told her that last month his 19-year-old daughter spoke on the phone for 13 minutes, but sent over 1,700 text messages. Which speaks to the point—if your child has a cell phone, he or she is most likely using it for text messaging.



IOHO (in our humble opinion), you don’t need to know all the codes—LOL, IDK, MYOB—when texting your kids. But if you need a glossary to interpret your son’s last message, there are several sites available including this one from MyCell.com



Reason #2: In case of emergency
One discovery in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina was that while phones and cell phone networks were down, text messages from cell phones actually made it through. It was an unexpected lifeline in a time of crisis, and people relied on text messaging to coordinate recovery efforts until emergency phones became available.



Our understanding is that text messages were able to make it through the broken communication system, in part, because text messaging works a little like e-mail. Your phone will store the message within its memory, continually trying to send it until successful. The amount of times it tries, and how long it keeps the message in memory, depends on your phones settings, which is why it’s a good idea to try text messaging before an emergency strikes.



Reason #3: Silent but connected
If students can use text messaging to pass notes in school, or at the dinner table, then it stands to reason that professionals like us can use the same technology when we are unavailable to speak. Through text messaging you can continue to receive messages from clients, colleagues and loved ones, even when it’s not practical to take phone calls. Of course we all know how this can be taken too far, so before anyone complains about texting etiquette, it is not okay to text when you should be paying attention. Or driving.



Before you get started
Ready to text? First, you need to make sure you have a text-enabled phone. It’s a good bet that if your phone is four or five years old, you probably can’t text message. So, it’s time to upgrade. The good news is that it’s hard to find a phone that doesn’t have text messaging capabilities.



You also want to check your plan. It is predicted that “mobile messaging revenue across major markets will grow 15.7 percent in 2008 to $60.2 billion, up from $52 billion in 2007." Who is paying for that growth? You are my friend, in texting fees. It’s easy to avoid overpaying for text messaging with many providers offering unlimited text messaging for you or your entire family.



Finally, send a message! Yes, you will start out typing very slowly – although many phones come with predictive texting (which means the phone tries to figure out what you are typing as you hit each button) which makes life a little easier. And yes, your kids are going to shake their heads in embarrassment.


Kristin Brandt and Erin Kane




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Nice job, Manic Mommies! Congrats on your first blog entry for Real Simple!

Posted by: Jennifer from Detroit| March 05, 2008 at 09:30 AM




I use texting a lot to get in touch with my husband. He is in meetings all day and often travels between two office locations, so the very best way to reach him is to send him a text.

Posted by: Lori in MN| March 05, 2008 at 12:55 PM




I LOVE THIS COMMERCIAL! I laugh everytime it comes on ... the newer one is even funnier when the grandmother says, "ONYUD" (transaltion ... 'Oh, no you didn't') ... lololololol

Posted by: Darren| March 05, 2008 at 01:28 PM




My husband and I text (and use Instant Messenger) all day long. It really helps when we need the other person to pick something up at the store. I would completely forget to buy his shaving cream or Coke if I didn't have his text message to look at. It's really a time saver for us both.

Posted by: Patty Springberg| March 05, 2008 at 01:31 PM




I love being able to communicate with my teenager.....she's more apt to check a text message than voicemail- so I can leave her "To dos" and "I love yous" during her classes- and I get instant updates on "he asked me out" to "I ACED THE TEST!"

Posted by: Dee| March 05, 2008 at 02:02 PM




This will help when I make my point to my husband the value of texting as a family. When our plan is up this year I am going to add texting at least to my phone so I can comunicate with my kids easier. I want to talk my husband into adding it to his phone too. thanks.

Posted by: Leah| March 05, 2008 at 02:18 PM




My oldest daughter (22) moved across the country, this is truly one of the only ways we can stay in touch. Although I have become faster at texting, I lose some of my "coolness" by the fact that I have to use my reading glasses! Oh well. Love these blogs, keep up the good work.

Posted by: Karen from Washington (State)| March 05, 2008 at 02:34 PM




I text message our teenage babysitters. It is the quickest way to get then to respond. They tend to be terrible at answering messages left on their cell phones but will text an answer right back (even from school in the middle of school days!). I also can send the same message, "Anyone want 2 bbsit Sat?" to multiple phones at once, increasing our chance of getting a date!

Posted by: Emily Systma| March 05, 2008 at 03:21 PM




...and with teens it's a great way to set boundaries: "home by 9pm" texted is irrefutable, and 'omg' is so much easier to read when you don't hear the tone. plus, kids can text you to pick them up without their comrades knowing in case they want to leave... it's very effective one way communication! we use it all the time.

Posted by: Martha Cravens| March 05, 2008 at 05:53 PM




...and with teens it's a great way to set boundaries: "home by 9pm" texted is irrefutable, and 'omg' is so much easier to read when you don't hear the tone. plus, kids can text you to pick them up without their comrades knowing in case they want to leave... it's very effective one way communication! we use it all the time.

Posted by: Martha Cravens| March 05, 2008 at 05:53 PM




I text my two sons each day. I am not a mom who hovers over them, but I decided to let them know that I think of them each day, and when I do I sent them a text telling them I love them. I mix it up each day with a different way of saying it - I might write it in pig latin, write it backwards, use abbreviations, etc. They are 24 and 20 yrs old and one is away at college. They respond back most of the time but I explained that it was not necessary to respond. It it just my way of letting them know I love them and think of them.

Posted by: Helen from NJ| March 05, 2008 at 06:08 PM




SO TRUE! It has helped me reconnect and further the communication with the racalcitrant teens.....Texting is also good for quick and sometimes steamy texts with the husband as well. happy txtng!

Posted by: Maria on the right coast| March 05, 2008 at 07:46 PM




Yes, it's a great way to keep in touch with mate, friends, kids... but really, that daughter who has 1700 messages per month? Someone needs to sit that girl down and give HER a lesson about real life. I send quite a few messages and it's always under 50/month..... 1700 would make it, what, like 50-60 per day? Does she have a job? School? If you did nothing all day long, you could maybe fit that many into one day.

Posted by: Kalena| March 05, 2008 at 09:27 PM




It's true! We recently had to update our family plan to add unlimited text messaging after my stepdaughter racked up almost $40 in overages! She's got 300 phone minutes that she never uses, but she can't seem to stay UNDER 400 text messages! :) It's a very convenient way to communicate iwth my husband who is tech support and tied up on his work phone all day as well.

Posted by: Heidi| March 05, 2008 at 09:40 PM




Nice post...I'm definetly a fan of texting!!

Although, texting is best when "your style" or "text philosophy" is communicated to all parties.

For me, texting is like a post-it left on the reciepient's desk....there to read and reply at any time. I use it to mostly help me communicate thoughts and ideas before I forget (that's why my whole team, including the staff advisor had to up their package b/c of my messages!!)

For some, texting ineeds an instant reply. They assume you can text back instantly in any situation or must know right now. That's why dad get's aggravated when I text him at 11pm! (he needs to change his tone to vary from regular calls:)

Thanks :)

Posted by: Chrys| March 05, 2008 at 10:58 PM




My brother and I are on one cell account, our parents have another, and since he and I text all the time, sometimes it's hard to remember that the rest of the family isn't text-ready! We're in 3 different states and because of our phones we probably talk more than when we all lived under the same roof.
I actually started texting when the 18-year olds at work (I manage a bookstore) started texting me for schedules and the like- now all of my managers have unlimited messages and we use it for anything that doesn't require a 10 (or 90!) minute answer. Either the responses get texted back, or they alert us to a point where making the call makes more sense. It's the best way to say "I don't mean to interrupt your day, but I have a question..."!

Posted by: Christine| March 06, 2008 at 02:56 AM




If your child is texting you from school, you're teaching him or her to break rules and that it's okay simply because you're the parent. It is NOT okay. As a teacher, you cannot imaging the frustration of trying to deal with cell phones (distractions/cheating because of texting) all day long. Parents are part of this problem. Isn't that what dinnertime is for? Catching up on each others' day? Try speaking to your children and looking at them at the same time. Communication is more than "texting." What's going to happen when insurance companies stop paying for accidents which occur when drivers are texting?

Posted by: Teresa| March 11, 2008 at 09:32 AM




It's also good when you are playing guitar hero online and want to let your friend know how much they suck! Great post Manic Mommies! Might I share a url where you can buy text messaging tees? Check out mykidsrockclothing.com/survey.php

As an additional note, I might mention that my providor, US Cellular offers texting online. Using a very simple web based interface, you can save time and send away! Plus it is totally free. Check out uscc.com.

And as a plus instead of calling Erin and having her not pick up and having to listen to her depressing voice mail message, a person could just txt her!

Posted by: Erica| March 12, 2008 at 12:34 PM




My daughter routinely sends over 7000 text messages a month and shows no sign of stopping! I think it's here to stay....and that's okay with me. I like being able to text her myself and I love to read her texts (shhh!). It really shows me what she's been up to!! LOL

Posted by: Kim Colton| March 27, 2008 at 12:18 PM






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