At 41, I decided that I wanted to make changes in my life, that I didn't want to live the rest of my life with the insecurities and depression that had plagued me all of my life.

I have been working on making small changes, such as stopping myself when I feel panic coming over me and making myself act/react opposite of what I had in the past.

It's been a long hard road for the last 2 years, however, it is getting easier to stand up for myself and to trust my own opinions. It's still difficult at times, but I have started to feel much better about myself and I try to see the joy in life and to let the disappointments go. I've come to realize that the criticisms of my father aren't really indicative of who I am.

The more I work at it, the easier it seems to get. Not only is this the best decision I've ever made, but it's probably the only decision I've ever made on my own.

Kicking my husband out. Not because we got a divorce but because we stayed together. His alcoholic life was spiraling downward, bringing me and my two young children with it. Taking a stand and saying ENOUGH gave me strength and him clarity. He got help. I got help. And I'm now more in love with his sober self then I could ever imagine.

Having cosmetic eyeliner tattooed on! Huge time-save and great during allergy season.

The best decision I ever made was marrying my husband Jathan. He is the sweetest, kindest, cutest, most loving person I have ever known and truly a gift from God!

I made the decision to give up a leading role in an original play (being produced in Los Angeles), to spend the summer getting to know and taking care of my 3 grandchildren while their single-mom (my daughter) worked at her new job. As an EXTRA bonus, my son flew out to see us and for the first time in 12 years, my two children and I were together under the same roof. Getting to know my grandchildren, reconnecting with my daughter and then being able to hug both of my children at the same time proved to me that I couldn't have made a better decision - it was the highlight of my year - maybe my life. (The play went on to critical acclaim without me!)

Leaving my ex-husband!

One of the best decisions I ever made was getting my son a cochlear implant after his hearing aids failed to provide him with any benefit. It was major, controversial surgery, but he now hears like you and I do, and is in a regular 4th grade class. He plays sports and has friends, and can do anything he wants without us, because he can hear! We are so blessed to be living at this time in history!

One of the best decisions I ever made was getting my son a cochlear implant after his hearing aids failed to provide him with any benefit. It was major, controversial surgery, but he now hears like you and I do, and is in a regular 4th grade class. He plays sports and has friends, and can do anything he wants without us, because he can hear! We are so blessed to be living at this time in history!

After nearly 15 years in the same job, I took a new position. While it was not exactly what I wanted, I felt I had to get out of the same old office that was being filled with toxic people. Everyone there was unhappy and looking for new positions. Well, my new job is wonderful. It is filled with challenges that, while initially off-putting, have reminded me that I have a brain and I need to use it. It's nice to feel wanted and alive again.

The best decision I ever made was leaving Corporate America and going back to school to become an elementary school teacher.

My husband and I had finally decided to buy our first home (we had been renting for years), and just as we were getting ready to close on our home, I found out my position with a company was going to terminate. Everyone said that we should not buy the home with the impending financial uncertainty, but we knew that purchasing versus renting would be life changing, so we proceeded with our plan. Within 2 months, I had a new job and all the benefits of owning a home. It would have been much harder to qualify for that loan with having started a new job since one of the qualifiers is your length of employment. Also, having just purchased a home was a strong motivator to get a job!

We have all done it- seen a gorgeous person and not stopped to say something, only to regret it later. While at my Target one day, I saw an oh-so-gorgeous man and decided I was going to talk to him. It ended up that I followed him up the escalator, into the mens' department , tapped him on the shoulder and said "I don't know what your situation is, if you're seeing someone or not, but I'd like you to have this" and gave him my business card. He called; we had the best first date ever, moved in together after nine months, and have now been blissful for a total of 16 months!

Going to graduate school. I realized that I didn't want to spend the rest of my life at my current job, so I got everything together and applied. I ended up moving 1500 miles, from New Hampshire to South Dakota not knowing anybody here, but it was well worth it. I'm in my second year of getting my PhD and I couldn't be happier. I own my own house, I have a fantastic group of friends, and I love my research. What else do I need?

When first found out I was pregnant was about the same time me and my boyfriend broke up. I wasn't going to keep the baby. Well I did and it was the best decision ever. I have the most beautiful daughter in the world. She has made me a better person. I am now more thoughtful,patient, and loving. It has made my relationships with everyone in my life better. I can't imangine what life would be like without her.

When I was still in high school I was crazy in love with a boy who wanted me to drop out of school and marry him. I asked my father how to make a decision that would affect my entire future (but of course I would not tell him what it was), He thought a minute then told me he always believed that he should not be doing something if he had any doubts about it. I have followed that advise all my life and it never got me in trouble. All my important decisions have been good ones.

My best decision was to have gastric bypass surgery. I am stronger and healthier. I am happy. And that is the best, to be happy with oneself.

My best decision was to have gastric bypass surgery. I am stronger and healthier. I am happy. And that is the best, to be happy with oneself.

Investing in a 401(k) at age 23.

In 2001 I made a decision to move to Maui, Hawaii. Packed up my house, rented it out, packed two suitcases and left with the idea if it did not work out it was an adventure. People thought I'd be back. 7 years later, a great Real Estate career, and no regrets! Aloha :)

When my husband and I decided to have a 3rd child. We knew we'd never regret it once that baby arrived!

Finally going back to school (afater buying a house) and getting my BA in Math when I was almost 39. It opened up many more opportunities for me.

(I rented out rooms in the house so I could afford to work 1/2 time & go to school.)

After he'd waited patiently for 6 1/2 years for me to find the courage to marry again, I called my now husband on a Wednesday and asked if he'd like to get married that Saturday... nearly 27 years ago. Best decision I ever made and one I'm thankful he waited for!

Marring my husband over 50 years ago was the smartist thing I ever did. He was and is a wonderful husband, father plus many more other things. He served in the Air Force for 23 years and 19 years as a Fire Chief. Now we are very active in our church.

I have 2 - Number One is the day I asked Jesus to be the Lord of my Life, and Number Two is the day I married my wonderful husband almost 20 years ago, and we are more in love now than we ever were, That's what happens when you live your life for God and the way He leads you..Everyone should try it!